Everybody has something good to show, but don’t wait until it is too late. There are some bad habits we all have and these horrible traits push people away. Are you the person who is welcomed, or are people overjoyed when you are leaving?
I found these five unwanted habits, horrible traits that push people away, and if you have some of them, learn how to get rid of them.
1. You are a downer
We have been around these people, and that time is not well spent. A downer only complains about the current situation, how bad life is treating him and how everything is bad. If you are one, better learn to talk about good stuff or people will walk away. Instead of complaining try to tell what you noticed while stuck in traffic. Find good things in the bad.
2. You do not shut up
If you are one of these, you are on the wrong path. People who don’t shut up at all, are not welcomed anywhere, people will avoid you and most probably, you will end up talking to yourself. To fix this easily, just close your mouth and hear what others have to say. Others know how to talk too.
3. You are distracted
People to people commination is good but if you are distracted constantly and not paying attention, there is no communication going on. While someone is talking to you, listen, don’t peek in the phone, maybe you will lose a best friend.
4. You are condescending
Don’t be “know it all person”. If you know something more, help others to reach your level, don’t be condescending, it is the worst habit ever.
5. You are insincere
Being insincere ranks on the top of the bad habits. Be kind but be honest too, nobody likes when they are lied in their face.
If you improve yourself while excluding these horrible traits that push people away you will succeed in life. You will be the “always welcomed” person! People will follow up and you will be appreciated!